This Old Spouse

SHARYN WOLF

Articles

Emotional Affairs
By Lynn Harris, Ladies Home Journal
Sandra, 45, a teacher in New York, meets a "totally beguiling guy" in a similar field. He helps her with a project; they start e-mailing, then phoning, having long talks over drinks. Thing is, she has a boyfriend. He has a wife. They're not having sex. Are they having an affair?

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Hacks of Passion
By Mark Lotto, The New York Observer
On a slow night, Anne, a 23-year-old assistant at an art consultancy, will get drunk at home with her friends and, instead of watching a movie or gossiping about men, they'll break into one of their old boyfriends' e-mail accounts. "My friends and I have a few glasses of wine, and it's like, 'Let's go read [his] e-mail!'" Anne said, making an inbox sound like a pirated cable box-free of charge, only slightly criminal and endlessly engaging.

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