This Old Spouse

SHARYN WOLF

Relationship Counselor & Author
ANSWERS YOUR QUESTIONS
Question for a marriage counselor How do you suggest we regain romance after many years of marriage?


Marriage Counselors reply


What turned you on when you met won't work anymore. You need to do more. Sex dies because we let it. It's not just about menopause. So, what you can do is to realize that it will take longer to get you hot.

Your partner may not understand that you, biologically, need more time. That it isn't lack of desire, necessarily. And you may not realize that either. So you may think your sex drive is down when it's just heating like a crock pot instead of a wok!!!