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Any ideas on how to deal with "old" anger (from this relationship) that seems to get in the way of feeling loving? |
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Old anger may be unresolved
issues or else you may have a need to keep
your anger at him – because if you give up the
anger you will feel more vulnerable to being hurt
again. So, decide whether you can trust him
now and if he has sufficiently apologized for what
went wrong before.
If he has, then you must work on your
anger alone and not put it on him. So ask yourself, "What would you be doing with all your energy if you weren't spending it being so angry at him?" |